3 Important Steps That Will Remove the Fear of Approaching a Woman

3 Important Steps That Will Remove the Fear of Approaching a Woman

3 Important Steps That Will Remove the Fear of Approaching a Woman

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you love a certain woman, you have met her in a certain place but you fail to follow her and tell her your feelings?

The problem here, as usual, is the fear that comes to you suddenly without you being able to control it.


Sometimes approaching a woman is another very difficult task. On the other hand, you can approach a woman and then she embarrasses you by rejecting you in front of people. It can be in a club, supermarket, bus station etc. If you assume that if you approach a certain woman she will reject you, fear starts from there, and it is difficult for you to be able to talk to this type of woman.

So what will you do until you get rid of the fear of approaching a woman?

Getting rid of the fear of approaching a woman is very easy. There are simple techniques that you can use to calm your nerves and give you a better chance of winning the heart of the woman you are swooning over.

Steps to remove the fear of approaching a woman

1. Have the right mindset

Having the right thoughts helps a lot in removing fear from your mind. For example, if you approach a woman with thoughts like "Manisha, this woman is more beautiful than Beyonce. I know if I approach her she will reject me, even if I save all the lessons in the Art of Seduction she will still reject me." If you have it in your mind that you can't approach a woman, then understand that you really can't.

Ok. Why not have positive thoughts? For example, put in your mind thoughts such as "Duh! This woman is Noma, today I feel like interacting with people, I know if I follow her here, she can't refuse."

Remind yourself that this woman is not the end of the world. Even if he rejects your response, there are millions of others like him who are looking for a chance to be fired.

Also understand that being rejected by a woman the first time does not mean that it is the end of the journey. And even if he refuses the second or third time, there are others you can approach without any worries.

2. Improve your skills in talking to women

There is that white saying that says 'practice makes perfect'. If you want to become a champion at doing something, then you must practice regularly. So how will you practice?

#Talk to women.

Talk to women anywhere, starting from shops, markets, schools, work, anywhere talk to women. A woman is a woman even if she is the one who attracted you. Talking to women gives you confidence that you can use in the future when you will be seducing the one you love. [Read: Direct steps on how to approach a woman]

#Start by building the base.

If you're approaching a woman, especially one you've never met, don't ask her questions that will target her personally.

Do not try to ask him his name right away, you need to start with issues that are not aimed at him. For example, if you have met him at a club, you can talk about the songs that are being played or ask him about his favorite drink. If you have met him on the street, you can talk about the weather, when the bus will come or related news.

After explaining all this you can now introduce yourself and then ask him his name. If you use this method, he will feel more free than if you take the step of asking him his name on the spot.

#Mechanics and things he likes. 

Being busy with things that a person likes makes conversations longer. People usually like to talk about things that they like. So if you are talking to a woman and she mentions that she likes animals, you should expand your thoughts and try to ask her more. For example, you can ask him which animal he likes the most, if he was given the chance to raise an animal, which one would he choose, etc. [Read: LIFESTYLE: 16 Signs Show Won’t Be Your Boyfriend]

Your conversation with him will continue if he has shown interest. So if you think you want to start a topic that will show you how to do it, then it's your step to change the whole conversation.

#Praising him. 

Women love to be praised. Women go through a long process of applying makeup before they go out. They spend most of their time looking at themselves in mirrors, clothes that will match the day, their hairstyles and so on.

So if you have discovered the appearance of a woman, why not compliment her? Saying things like "Today I like how you look" or "Today you look great" will do a lot for you. Complimenting a woman for something she did will make her feel beautiful and see that you are attracted to her. This will increase your chances of being liked by women.

Although complimenting a woman is a good thing, it will depend on the time or the place where you compliment the woman. For example, if you are talking to a woman for the first time, you cannot tell her "You have beautiful breasts." This will make a woman not feel free with you or see you as a fall.

3. Learn from knowledgeable people

Learning from people can be a good way to learn to be fearless when approaching a woman. This starts from asking your friends, those you work with, you study with and you can also get knowledge from TV shows. [Read: LIFESTYLE: Four (4) Ways to Boost A Man's Confidence in Women During Seducing]

You can also try asking some of your female friends. For example, you can ask them "What women like to be seduced" or "What things annoy a woman when talking"

Some women may not feel free to answer you, but if you find one who is free, he will tell you everything from A to Z.

To conclude, being afraid to approach a woman is something that many go through and if you practice regularly, then you can easily face this challenge.